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"I do believe in an everyday sort of magic...the inexplicable connectedness we sometimes experience with places, people, works of art and the like; the eerie appropriateness of moments of synchronicity; the whispered voice, the hidden presence, when we think we're alone." Charles de Lint

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Humbled....and Honored

Usually the saying "if you see something, say something" refers to matters of public safety. But I think we should also apply it to matters of public praise. Compliment someone who is rocking their outfit or say something kind to the young man who just checked out your groceries. It feels good to say something...and you know it makes that person feel good too.

It's humbling...but life affirming to be recognized. We like to dish it out...and we have to take it too.

I head out of town tomorrow afternoon....and I'm mostly ready.....so it was wonderful to spend a chunk of my day with my friend Patty. She is active in Portland Rotary and participates in so many worthy projects both locally and far and wide. Their work is impressive and important and I am in awe of all that they do. 

Her group sponsored a Flags for Heroes campaign as one of their fundraisers to support their various service projects. People were invited to sponsor a flag to honor a person that has made a difference in their life and Patty nominated me as one of her heroes. I was humbled and honored. 

Today we visited the flag display at the Maine Mall and enjoyed a delightful lunch together. It was a moving display....and a fabulous connection.

I feel so fortunate to have a friend in my life that is right down the street. And I'm thrilled that our friendship is meaningful to her too. 

Just yesterday I walked out to get the mail and saw her in her yard and just wandered down. It's so comforting. 


This campaign historically has honored the military. But her Rotary group promoted it much winder than that and include anyone who has impacted your life whether it be a teachers, minister, employer....or  friend.


The plaque reads: 

FLAGS FOR HEROES
HONORING
MARYANN SHUPE
FRIEND WHO BRINGS
KINDNESS, JOY AND HOPE

Thank you Patty! My heart is full.

6 comments:

  1. You sure got THAT right, Patty!!!!!

    MaryAnn, such an honor to be so recognized and celebrated, and the key words are SPOT ON: friend, kindness, joy, and hope—all synonyms for YOU ❤️

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    1. Thank you Dotty! In some ways this was a tough post to write. But there was a pretty high joy factor at play....so here it is. I'm so appreciative of my friendship with Patty. And I'm so appreciate of my supportive "online" friendships as well.

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  2. My heart was full for you just reading this, MaryAnn. You deserve this so much. I see you as a spreader of hope and joy and it's wonderful to see you honored. What a lovely tribute and how nice to have such a good friend so close by. I'm so happy for you! Also, such great photos! Safe travels tomorrow!

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    1. Thank you so much Judy. I feel so very blessed.

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  3. An honor well deserved. Congratulations!
    Kathy

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    1. Thank you Kathy! I was pretty tickled with the recognition!

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